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Three of them are optimistic, two are less so. Perhaps the most hopeful is Andrew Purvis, 32, a journalist whose five-year marriage ended two-and-a-half years ago when his wife began an affair with another man.
At first Andrew missed 'the noise and bustle and high drama' of family life but doubted that any woman would take him on, with his demanding job, heavy financial responsibility to support his two young children who live with their mother and his continued emotional involvement with them.
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I went through years of lying about it and even writing articles about it, but being totally honest, that's what I feel. There have been people I've met who wanted to have a relationship with me and with whom it would have been very easy, but I've thought No, I'm quite enjoying being on my own. I do believe that when I'm ready to settle down again I will meet someone.
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Then disillusionment set in. They love the chase, to prove they can pull a fairly attractive woman. Once they've College kid looking for same age or older, once you've shown that you like them, they can get on with their life.
I listen to some men talk, and they want some stunning bird to show off to friends. I've yet to meet a man mature enough to want me for me. My ideal man would be divorced for quite a long while so he would have the time to come to terms setfle it, have children of a similar age and have a sense of humour.
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I'm not being spiteful but, for me, I'd prefer someone older and of a similar emotional maturity. What are Andrew and Paula's prospects for happiness? The statistics are pretty brutal.
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If Paula continues to insist on an older man she may look in vain. According to the census, there wereunattached women aged 40 to 44 in Britain and onlymen between settlf and 49 in part because there were fewer births during the war.
A year-old man who wants a girlfriend between 30 and 34 will have a pool ofavailable women. A year-old woman trying to find a partner between 45 and 49 will only havemen to drawn on. The reality of life on the singles scene is endorsed by One Plus One, a charity that researches marriage and relationships. It is more socially acceptable to go out with younger women and men have more social freedom to go out on their own Seeking a woman that want s to settle down meet people. They don't have the same family responsibilities women have.
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The older they are, the bigger the age gap they are looking for.
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I haven't really tried. He has been inundated with offers: But for women, especially those who work in predominantly female sectors, there are fewer opportunities. Janet Owen, 39, a teacher, has been single since her marriage ended in though she has since had two long live-in relationships and other shorter ones.
Two years ago she moved from Liverpool to London in a positive attempt to break out of the limits of her social network. Her ideal partner could be about 10 years older: I manage to have a good time socially by going out to films and exhibitions on my own, but the lack of sex is the big issue. None of the men I spoke to were interested in a woman more than a year or two older.
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Charles's girlfriend, like many women in their early thirties, must have been aware of the pressure on her to settle down before it was too late. Women who d children do not have the luxury to postpone marriage into their late thirties or early forties, and those who put their personal lives on hold to Seeking a woman that want s to settle down their careers can pay a heavy price. In her mid-thirties, Joanne, Seeking a woman that want s to settle down is now 48, was offered the chance to make a major breakthrough into a previously male-dominated occupation in the arts, and took it.
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I've answered lonely hearts adverts in the Times; all the men who replied said they were getting letters. I spent the odwn extraordinary week in paradise, on my own, eating every meal alone. The agony of being alone was brought home to me excruciatingly there. Single women are caught in a trap. On the one hand, Seeking a woman that want s to settle down sexual revolution offered women the dowb of careers as well as sexual fulfilment.
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Of course, not all men respond in this way. For Simon Bell, the most important thing about a woman is not her looks. Looks are important but the whole is greater than the parts. A trawl through the lonely hearts column of the London listings magazine Time Out tells a different story: In the ads from women, the word attractive appeared only once. If tyat woman is not considered sexually desirable - because of her age or because her looks don't measure up to male norms - thatt she is not only denied a sexual life.
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Far from being impressed by young men, Dawn Anglin, 32, who runs a company in the Midlands selling machinery, looks for maturity in a partner: Young men are too immature for me. I'm looking for someone about 10 years older, who shares my sense of humour. Last month a new magazine was launched for single people.
Single Again aims not to find partners for the needy, but to help provide a creative approach towards being alone, a condition which many women are going to have to confront as a permanent way of life.
doan The thirty-and fortysomethings are not the only ones to be affected. There aremore women than men between the ages of 20 and This discrepancy will increase as this age group gets older, as it usually has done for previous generations.
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And so women resort to the wiles of the Victorian maiden. So much for feminism, so much for the sexual revolution. Being single can be an admirable, life-enriching state, but, like any other, not if it is enforced and unwanted.
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